Pat and I were in the back yard of our home a few years ago
discussing which weeds (all of them) had to go away. Our eyes turned to our
trampoline sitting in the corner of our yard, under the spreading limbs of
our lovely oak tree.
This trampoline has quite a background.
Let me give you a little history. Before my first wife, Joyce, and I
got married (we dated for more than six years), one of the desires of our
heart was to some day have a kind of ministry that would allow us to work
with our own kids. Beginning in 1960, we began planting and pastoring
churches. In late 1963, we ended up in the Texas Panhandle. I figured I’d
probably be a pastor for the rest of my life. Little did I know what God had
in store for us.
While happily pastoring away, I made a trip to Southern California to
preach at a national fellowship gathering. I took four year old Tim along.
We stayed with my Grandparents. While there, my Grandma took me to Chuck
Smith’s tent church in Costa Mesa. There were several thousand young people
in attendance. During that meeting, God let me know that my future ministry
was going to be with kids. We had some kids in our church, but I was in the
dark about how He was going to work it all out.
My first thought when I got back home was to offer to resign so I
could pursue this course change. The consensus was that I could pastor AND
work with kids. I had no idea how that was going to work but began waiting
on the Lord.
It didn’t take long for the answer to begin unfolding. The next
summer, some young people moved into a house across the street from our home.
We’d purchased a trampoline for our kids to use. One evening, one of the
college students came across the street to visit. He asked me if I would
consider talking with he and his friends about the Bible and God. I agreed.
We met one night a week. The kids all sat around the edge of our trampoline.
As the group grew, they filled our back yard. We moved into our home as the
colder weather came. As we watched our home bulging at the seams, we began
asking the Lord for a larger place to meet. The Lord graciously led us to an
old carpenter’s union building on the edge of our church property. Along the
way, we adopted "The Fish" as our name. A friend welded a huge fish
together out of steel pipes. We planted this huge fluorescent fish outside
the door of our building.
I want you to know that our trampoline was the beginning of a really
neat and powerful ministry for the Lord. Well, the trampoline has made two
moves in the past 37 years. It’s been repainted several times. We had to
put new springs and a new bed on it.
Now, nobody jumps on it and hasn’t for years. Due to liability
problems, we can’t just let the neighborhood kids come and jump. Our own
grandkids who live in town have their own trampoline.
Pat and I discussed tearing it apart and putting it down by the road
for the trash guys to haul off. That’s the sane, sensible thing to do. It’s
rusted pretty badly. The springs sag and quite likely wouldn’t support
anyone jumping on it. Yep, that’s the sensible thing to do all right.
The Israelites frequently drove stakes in the ground, put up icons,
built altars, etc. in order to cause the people to remember the good things
God had done for them. Those remembrances were designed to spur them on to
further trust in the Lord and reliance on Him for greater and grander
victories down the road.
Well, a few weeks ago, the other local Meyer family offered to come
and dismantle the trampoline for us. Tim used the bed as a covering on his
big truck to keep things from blowing out along the highway. He cut up the
steel support parts and they got hauled to the road.
As I e-mailed with our other two children, they instantly wanted a
piece of the frame as a reminder of all the good things represented by that
trampoline. The above picture is my reminder. It finally was time for it to
go. However, it didn’t go without a lot of thoughts about its history and
meaning in our family and ministry.
Can you relate to this experience? Click on my name in the lower corner
of this page and I’ll write you back.
Responses to "USED PEANUT SHELLS"...
- I certainly identify with you on the job thing. I did the pop bottle
collecting, the lawn mowing, but one of my worst jobs was cleaning a place
called Tuff Koat. It rustpoofed cars and all week long the sticky tar like
stuff accumulated sometimes to half an inch in thickness. It was my job to
spray the floor with kerosene to soften it up and then use a scraper to try
and scrape it off the floor. Meanwhile, I would be slipping and sliding and
falling and I'd get a headache from the smell. After a few hours I would be
able to use a power washer and finish off the floor. It was a really
disgusting job, but I stuck with it and learned a lot about myself.
When the present congregation I pastor asked me to consider coming, I
used a good friend as one of my references. He and I got to know each other
real well. One of the things he told the elders when they contacted him was
that my great strength is that I’m not a quitter. He testified that I had
suffered through ministry situations that most people wouldn't put up with,
but I overcame and stuck to it. He also said that I may not be the most
gifted, or charasmatic speaker, but I am solid and trustworthy.
To be honest with you, I have never thought about it, but perhaps not
being a quitter is my strength, or even my spiritual gift:-) It drives me
nuts to see people just give up without finishing their committments or
promises.
Your story reminds me of something very important, something that perhaps
we've lost as a society lately. There is great value to us and our world, to
stick with things. Perseverence, it's a great word, at least when you look
back:-)
Thanks for the thought provoker once again!
- My most character building job was repairing, make that rebuilding, the
shoes of Amish pig farmers. I was helping an older gentleman who happened to
have a shoe repair business, yet was falling badly behind in his work because
of poor health. I asked if there was any way I could help him and he asked
the normal question, "Do you know how to work on shoes?" I said, "No, but
I'm a quick learner." That seemed to satisfy him, so he permitted me to work
with him all day. As a young pastor I could definitely use any extra income.
We were helping to pay for heat in the church on a salary that failed to
meet our needs, yet that is where God wanted us.
The old gentleman assured me that we would have months of work before he
was even caught up, but we accomplished that in about three weeks (Maybe I am
a quick study after all!). I continued to help him off and on, depending on
how he was feeling, until he sold the store. The very worst repair jobs came
from the feet of Amish pig farmers. They would wait until their work boots
were so badly broken down that we couldn't "half sole" them. They literally
needed to be rebuilt from the ground up. If you have shoveled peanut shells
in a chicken coop, you may have a sense for the smell that came from these
shoes. It was not only humbling, it was rewarding, for I knew that it was
God at work, providing for our needs.
- Jerry, today's article struck a chord within me...I know what you're
talking about...doing jobs that are NOT pleasant and sticking with it.
When I was 14 years old my family moved to Mississippi. Dad operated a
dairy farm, milking 60+ cows twice a day, seven days a week and 365 days a
year with no vacations. Life was hard, we were financially strapped. I felt
sorry for the stress my parents were in, soooo I milked cows, without
complaint, twice a day, seven days a week, and 52 weeks a year. I hated
milking cows. It mean I couldn't pursue my personal interests. In case you
don't know, cows poop wherever they are and are not polite about it at all.
In addition to all this we were not set up well to milk, either, so when the
winter rains came, the cows were VERY muddy and that mud had to be washed off
of those udders before a milker could be put on that animal. It was cold
during the winter, too. Terribly cold, back then. We were not set up well to
handle cold, rain and mud. But you know what the lessons were that I learned?
Stamina. Stamina - to stick with something even when very difficult, smelly
and unpleasant. Until then I lived for myself, cared little about others. I
learned loyalty.
I needed all this. Now when I see people handed things without working
for them, or fussing when situations are unpleasant, less then ideal, I think
about milking those cows in a nasty environment and think they must be
terribly spoiled.
- I don't think I'll ever eat another peanut again, :-) While in Bible
college, a friend and I worked Friday nights and Saturdays cleaning manure
from the cattle at the Union Stock Yards in Springfield. A real character
builder and it did provide us with some money.
- Ooh! Cleaning up after chickens? And I "used" to think that cleaning up
after
my husband was a horrid thing. Boy, do I stand corrected!